I am now 19!!!! Yay! I’m almost sure it’s one of the least exciting birthdays because nothing is new. No new privileges, no new category that I fit into, nothing. That’s ok though because I’m one year older and it signifies that I did in fact survive my first year of college. I have had a lot of people in my life the past 19 years. There are people who have made me laugh, made me cry, helped make me successful and helped take me down a wrong path or two. I have always lived my life (as long as I can remember) saying that I would have no regrets. In 19 years I can say that I have had a couple, but I think today is a good day to let them go and move on. So…no regrets – just live and learn. I think it’s important to tell people when they’ve been a large influence though, so I am.
My parents. This one is easy because they gave me life. They are the only 2 people in this entire world who have been there for me since day 1. They both push me to be my best in everything I do and even when I think I’ve reached that, they push a little more. They sat and watched me go through a lot of painful injuries and then supported me while I recovered. They gave me (and are still giving me) every opportunity I need to be a successful person. They both taught me to work hard in very different ways.
My dad works very hard. He doesn’t have a college degree but knows a hell of a lot more about what he does than the kids with degrees. He reads everything he can get his hands on about his work and he’s only come across 1 or 2 problems (there is some debate on this) his entire career that he couldn’t fix. He grew up in a tiny town in Missouri where he hunted, fished, and learned everything about sports. He taught me everything I know about gun safety and just about everything I know about sports. The exception to that is volleyball. Everything I know about football, basketball, and baseball is all due to him. My dad taught me to be competitive and is the only reason I am as competitive as I am today. He was there for every game I ever played unless he was out of town for work and physically could not be there. I think one of the coolest things when I was playing sports was I knew my mom and dad were both in the stands supporting me. Now that I’m older, I can see where my dad and I differ when it comes to politics and philosophy. However, some of the best conversations I have had are with my dad on those topics. He never ceases to remind me to broaden my view of the world and to take everything in. He believes in my dreams for my future and me.
My mom also works very hard. She does have a college degree which she got ten-ish years ago while my sister and I were little. My mom is unfortunate to be one of the ones hit by Verizon layoffs. She didn’t sit around and feel sorry for herself, though. She went out and found a job as soon as possible. She’s a very strong person and doesn’t let a lot get to her. She was the valedictorian of her high school class and got a 29 on her ACT’s – a score that will forever haunt me, as I was never able to beat it. She has a dream of teaching math one day and I’m sure she’ll do it. She’s going back to school again to get her teaching degree and I hope she knows that all of us couldn’t be any prouder. My mom pushed me to get my high school diploma, even though I wanted to take the easy road to my GED. She has always stressed school first and everything else later. I didn’t know how important it was at the time, but now I do. My mom and I also differ in our opinions but that’s ok. My mom never stops reminding me that everything is possible. Like my dad, she also believes in my dreams and me.
Brandon. This one is also fairly easy. I was pretty convinced I wanted nothing more than a GED after my junior year and Brandon (along with my mom) fought with me until I gave in and decided that I could deal with another year in high school. He has been there for me for almost 4 years now as a friend and boyfriend. He has helped me study for numerous tests, been my go to person when I’m angry, stressed, upset, or just plain tired, been my person who I can tell anything, and we seem to agree on a lot of stuff about life. Even when he has no idea what I’m talking about, he’ll sit and listen to me ramble on about chemistry and biology. That’s him, though, patient. Which is good because he wants to be a kindergarten teacher. I think I owe any patience I have today to him. Without him the girls I coach would be terrified. Before every test, every interview, or anything important, he tells me good luck, and that he believes in me. I think those 2 things keep me confident even when I have no reason to be. I love you!
Caitlin. It’s only been a school year that we’ve known each other but we know more about one another than just regular friends because we live together. I’m forced to be a better writer because I’m terrified of her reading a paper and thinking I can’t write. She has a huge personality and has brought a lot of mine out too. We have a lot of fun and she has taught me to be a little more relaxed than I normally am. We talk about everything. Absolutely everything. If you have thought about it, we have talked about it. We do have differing opinions on things but we understand each other and it works out great! Hell, if we can share a 10x15 room we can do anything.
Kreston and Evan. I grew up with these two and they have been great! They are always there to talk to. Even when we all separated in high school and went our different ways, we get together at least once a year to catch everyone up on the happenings in our lives. Speaking of which, guys, we need to get together again. It’s over due. Evan is at the Air Force Academy while me and Kreston chose the traditional college route. I love them both. I think if I had two brothers, they would be like Kreston and Evan.
Coaches. There are many who fall under this category: The Sweeneys, the DePasses, Nate Martel, Leanne Carmona, Tamera Bransford, Bonnie Belzer, and Hermie Corns. Leanne Carmona gave me a chance I had only dreamed of my freshman year and handed me a varsity jersey. Then she put me in a game. Whether she believed in me or just took a chance she gave me the confidence I needed to go forth. Melissa Sweeney gave me a chance 2 years ago that started my coaching degree. Hermie Corns gave me a chance this year to start my coaching career in Northern Colorado. Nate Martel, Tamera Bransford, Bonnie Belzer, and the DePasses all transformed me into a better person and volleyball player. Thanks everyone!
There are definitely more people that belong on this list for things they’ve done for me, opportunities they’ve given me, and times it felt like they were the only ones that believed in me. There are also people that I thought were a negative impact on my life but now that I look back, it turned out to be a positive. I got a tattoo and a second ear piercing last year on my birthday, I guess all that’s left is it sit back and…study for my genetics final that’s on Thursday!
-Katie